What is love? Just saw a Korean drama from tv.. and thought of a real story..

My friends, 2 of them were my classmates. They had been together as couple for 7 years, many of us expected them to marry pretty soon.. but last month they broke apart. Reason being the guy had found his dream girl which is destined to be the one.. and thus he had to make a “heartbroken” decision to end their 7 years relationship to pursue his destined love.

It’s nothing as a matter of right or wrong with his decision.. it’s a matter of choices..

What will you do if you are in a long term relationship, only then you found out that there is someone that really touches your life more than your companion, you found someone that really gives you the heart pounding, you found someone that you really genuinely love.. what will you do?

Between love and commitment.. what will you choose?

What will I choose? What is love anyway?



15 Responses to “Love? What is..”

  1. kampungkai Says:
    November 18th, 2005 at 6:11 pm

    argh, tough, really tough choice!
    erm.. i think if it was me, i’d stayback with the 7yrs girl. U can never stop meeting new ppl in life, the world is full of humans who are better and more loving than your lover. Be happy with what we have, dun be too greedy.

  2. Jee Says:
    November 19th, 2005 at 12:41 am

    Tough decision indeed..

  3. Yuna Says:
    November 19th, 2005 at 3:08 am

    It depends. I know after being with someone for so long, the excitment has all dissepared. So he really has to ask himself a hard question, whether it is the new found love that gives him the kind of excitment he hasn’t had for a while or becuase he indeed has found his true love.

    Only time will tell if he has made the right decision or not.

  4. Jee Says:
    November 19th, 2005 at 3:31 am

    Both of you make your points well.. indeed only time can tell whether his decision is right or wrong.. is it just a short-lived excitement or is it really his destined love.

    I sure hope I don’t need to face this kind of situation in my life.. but who knows..

  5. Miaka Says:
    November 20th, 2005 at 4:15 pm

    HEHEHE! Korean dramas i watch until i sian. =/ my mom’s korean. watch drama until i’m so bored of it. :x

  6. Jee Says:
    November 20th, 2005 at 5:44 pm

    Korean drama sure sian.. if not for the pretty girls lol I won’t bother at all..

  7. alicia Says:
    December 16th, 2005 at 8:43 am

    i think breaking up with the 7 yrs girl is mean.. like wad kgkai said.. one can’t stop meeting ppl.. it’s how one take charge of his/her life to prevent unnecessary things or events dat is gonna hurt someone…

    for eg. a married man.. should he be staying late every nite in the office with a lady? or should he be sending a lady collegue home every nite? or vice versa for a married lady..

    self dicipline is important.. i’m sure that 7 yrs of relationship was first built with sparks of romance and love too…

  8. Jee Says:
    December 16th, 2005 at 10:28 am

    Alicia.. true love vs responsibility. That’s a never ending story and argument..

    I sure hope I don’t need to make that kind of decision.

  9. apple Says:
    January 7th, 2006 at 1:02 pm

    kampungkai and alicia both have a strong point there.

    Staying committed even though excitement and romance experienced early in any relationship dissolved shows a greater value of love. it means your love constitute respect, gratefulness… and that your love is strong no matter what

  10. Jee Says:
    January 7th, 2006 at 3:10 pm

    Nicely said apple.. love is not just about the excitement and romance, being responsible with respect and gratefulness is part of what real love should be.

    We probably can’t expect to still be excited about each other when we are 60s years old, love by then is the understanding and the warmth shared together.

  11. KaKa Says:
    April 20th, 2006 at 12:17 am

    LOVE stands for:
    L – Listen
    O – Overlook
    V – Voice
    E – Effort…
    both side needs these in order to see this word.

  12. Jee Says:
    April 20th, 2006 at 1:19 am

    Nice point KaKa, the willingness to understand and compromise with care is important in any love relationship.

  13. Anonymous Says:
    September 7th, 2007 at 12:27 am

    yea , what is love ?

  14. Carlos Says:
    December 16th, 2014 at 2:06 am

    Evoenrye would benefit from reading this post

  15. Meuricy Says:
    March 21st, 2015 at 11:21 am

    I totally agree with you, but this all media they are prnootimg western culture just for few pennies. public is blind too Allha sab ko hidayat day ameen


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